Surprisingly, in our country after thirty unmarried man is considered to be a bachelor, whose dream "ringed" young lady and a woman - an old maid, whose chances to marry even less than that of our football team to win the World Cup. And all because:
1. If up to thirty to you no one got married, then with you that something is wrong
You're not married, because among the many fans were not the same one with whom you can go through life hand in hand and feel happy? It is useless to explain - not heard. We still have strong stereotypes in twenty mother in forty-grandmother, and no derogation.
Ah, over thirty and not married? Everything went youth! Neighbors and co-workers will no longer acquaint you with their unmarried friends, second cousins nephews, lonely and casual companions, whom you could become an ideal wife. Ahead of you expect a lonely old age and evenings watching television with the obligatory warm knitting socks for children girlfriends.
Forget about the traditions and stereotypes that are no longer relevant. Today, thirty years - this is not the age when it is no hope. And it certainly does not make the girl in the old aunt with boring character on sight that men run across to the other side of the street. On the contrary - everything is just beginning!
This confident and European ladies who are in no hurry to choose the style of wedding dress. For example, most of the portugalok marry at the age of 25, an English and Dutch - after 28 French - after 30. And no one laughs, looking after them, and does not say that at this age it is necessary urgently to throw all forces in search of her husband .
2. After thirty difficult to carry and give birth to a healthy baby
Of course, it is better to give birth early and after thirty to think nothing of her second child. But in his youth it is necessary to get an education, a career, to take place and only then, when you have no ambition, think about starting a family and having children.
Doctors believe that if a woman does not suffer from serious illnesses, it could give birth and after twenty-five. In addition, modern medicine has all the possibilities to find out how developing fetus in early pregnancy.
The oldest woman in labor in the world has become a 66-year-old resident of Romania Adrian Ilesku, which in 2005 gave birth to a baby girl. The previous record was set in the year 2003, when 65-year-old school teacher from India Satyabhama Mahapatra birth to a boy.
According to Professor John Mirowski the University of Texas, the ideal age for a first birth - 34 years. It is at this age provides an optimal balance between the health of women and their material well-being. The scientist believes that with age woman about their health more responsibly, behaves not as risky as 20 years, and this is also an important factor. "In any case, the woman who gave birth to first child at age 34, is 14 years younger than for health reasons, the one who gave birth in 18 years" - says Mirowski. In the UK, the average age at which women have their first child is thirty years. Late delivery in the West has long been considered the norm. For example, Kim Basinger became a mother after forty, and Madonna only thirty-six gave birth to their first child, and after forty - second.
3. Participants left
It is believed that if you have lasted find its second half to thirty years, you just for who will marry, since all suitable candidates have already snapped up more practical ladies.
For example, a 31-year-old journalist Leticia Ortiz Rokasalano managed to turn the head of the Spanish throne Crown Prince 35-year-old Felipe of Asturias, a 32-year-old Mary Donaldson, the daughter of a simple Scottish professor of mathematics, win the heart of a 35-year-old Danish Prince Frederik.
It's like being late for sale: come, and there and things are not so much the size of your left, and the quality is poor. But if it is run through a quick look, and if you look closely, carefully dig around, you can find something that will please many years.
The main thing is not to sit at home all the time and be creative search. Often travel, communicate more with all kinds of people, hope for good luck and believe in yourself.
4. Men prefer young blondes
Even Balzac wrote that thirty-year woman - it is a living mystery, and there is always a man who wants to interpret it as prompt him desires, hopes, beliefs.
If you even meet a free man, he learned about your age, bryaknet pass out and not leaving him slowly disappear as the Cheshire Cat.
Nonsense. The average age of marriage in the big cities of Russia is now about thirty years. About - that "thirty", too.
5. Habits are difficult to leave
Another barrier on the road to marriage - "bachelor habits." That is, the chances of getting married women in their thirties still there, but the desire is gone. Live one becomes much easier - and career success, and lack of finance for all moods, and do not wash dirty socks, and cook dinner, and share the TV remote control.
However, any, even the most hardened, bachelor habits completely dissolve in a gentle and loving look. My neighbor recently turned 69 years old, but she surprisingly children and grandchildren went and got married. Now they go everywhere with Granddaddy only together, always handle and quite happy! She - a great example of that at any age you can meet the man of her dreams and marry him.
And finally, listen to the advice of all the main family psychologists: to marry the person with whom you really well and who are not afraid to grow old on one pillow.